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Relationship Information: "Sexual Attraction - Addiction or Intimacy? by: Margaret Paul Sexual Attraction - Addiction or Intimacy? By Margaret Paul, Ph.D. Megan asked the following questions in one of our phone sessions: 'Over and over, when I'm really attracted to a man and I sleep with him fairly early in the relationship, I discover that he is not good husband material. What am I doing wrong? Am I just attracted to the wrong kind of men?' This is a frequent question from my single women clients. 'Megan, many men know how to project sexual energy in a way that arouses women. These men define their worth by their sexuality and by their ability to attract woman. They know just how to sexually ignite a woman - it's an energy that they are putting out that goes right into your genitals and makes you think that something real and important is happening. But they are operating from a sexual addiction rather than from caring or intimacy.'"